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Are you thinking about homeschooling your child? If so, I know that making the decision to homeschool can feel overwhelming and even alarming. I asked a group of homeschooling parents what they, in hindsight, would have liked to know when making this decision, and now I’m going to share with you what we all wish we’d have known from the beginning.

The first and most important step is to find homeschooling families near you. You will need their knowledge and support in the decision-making as well as in your homeschooling journey. I live in a small, rural town, and I assumed that I’d be doing this alone, and that was a frightening thought. I was shocked to find at least 4 local homeschooling groups in my area. Reach out via social media, look on your library bulletins, and talk with friends to locate a group near you.

Each state has it’s own set of homeschooling laws. You’ll need to look up the laws in the state you live in and familiarize yourself with them. Don’t let this intimidate you, however. Often, the legal jargon makes it sound much more complicated than it really is. The best way to understand your state’s laws is to talk with parents who are homeschooling in your state.

When researching homeschooling, you’ll come across a lot of philosophies you may not be familiar with, such as the Charlotte Mason method or the classical education method. You will also discover a plethora of curricula options, and all of this new information can feel overwhelming. It’s a good idea to do an overview of the philosophies and styles to discover what might be a good fit for your child, but you don’t have to stick with one certain method, and as you educate your children, you’ll naturally discover what they need. In regard to curricula, if you can visit a homeschool convention, this would be of great help to you. There, you can look through various curricula as well as attend lectures and classes for new homeschoolers. If you can’t get to a convention, ask other homeschoolers what their choices are. There are also curriculum review websites that offer an abundance of information.

If you’re concerned about socialization, don’t be.


  • Latebloomer Posted 8 November 2014 9:33

    As a former homeschooled student (grades 1-12), now a mother, I'm very familiar with this attitude, that socialization is not something that merits concern. That was how my parents approached it, and I entered adulthood with almost no interpersonal/relational skills and severe social anxiety as a result. The same thing happened to many of my homeschooling peers,whose parents had similar attitudes about socialization. Please take this issue seriously when you choose to homeschool your own children, and take the time to read about homeschooling from the students' perspective (not just the parents), so you have the best chance of avoiding pitfalls and giving your child a positive homeschooling experience.

    Here's a good source of stories and articles:

  • Cheryl Parker Posted 10 November 2014 7:46

    You know what?? I've just about had it with this. Guess What??? I went to PUBLIC SCHOOL and have horrible social skills. What?? No way could I have bad social skills when my peers are raising me, hmm….. It's funny when someone has bad social skills but went to public school, it is obviously that persons fault. If they have bad social skills but were homeschooled, oh it must be the homeschooling. Get a grip. There is no possible way of knowing that your outcome would have been better or worse (yes worse) if you were not homeschooled. Trust me, being teased and having people write you death letters and shove them in your locker saying they want you dead simply because you are alive doesn't make good socialization skills. I highly doubt you went over and read the whole article. They discuss ways of ensuring socialization. Public school does not provide instant socialization.

  • Mimi Rothschild Posted 23 July 2015 9:21

    Yes I want to making the decision to homeschool as a parents. I'm totally agree with that and knowledge and support in the decision-making as well as in my homeschooling journey. Thanks for this passionate reading from this blog.

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